So happy that NYC is slowly getting warmer
It seems that people are starting to come out of their winter hibernation now that the days are longer and the city is starting to wake up.
I’ve come to realize that people think they can handle a lot more than they actually can. I’ll never understand why some people keep things bottled up. This typically ends with an outburst, hurt feelings or an argument. Not the way to go in my opinions. I’ve always been a firm believer that if something is bothering you, it needs to be talked about. Apparently, not many other people feel that way. This week has been an eye opener for me. I have always been a very positive, upbeat person (according to my boyfriend, annoyingly so at times). Granted, I may seem to live in a bubble, I’m not as naive as I come off. It’s beginning to annoy me that people don’t see that. I don’t want to turn into some negative, pessimistic person just so I’m taken seriously. I don’t think that you have to have all of these terrible life experiences to give good advice or to be validated. This week has been a series of situations where people I love are finding themselves caught in between a rock and a hard place. I’ve delt with everything from job loss,divorce and family issues to deleting a very recent ex’s phone number from a cell phone, only after a call was placed. While none of these scenarios have directly effected my life, they’ve effected my friends and family. I almost feel like I wish we were all six again so that we could fight over who got to ride the power wheels first or when the most important thing in the world was getting a new my little pony or pound puppy….